Common “risks” of living with DID

Many people with DID suffer from certain phobias and that creates elementary trouble in normal living norms. This has a tendency to make a person introvert and often develop acute depression or aggressive character.

This disorder keeps a person in a make-believe world, and the due to the confrontation of personalities within a single entity, patient can hear voice of someone or talks relentlessly with an imaginary person or describes himself as a different personality. While doing so, becomes an object of fun in the society that tends toward the identity crisis and the patient can be converted in a hyper-eccentric personality.

The disorder creates a self- harming tendency. Due to frenzy, a person can do serious harm that can be fatal.
DID can be generated from previous traumatic experience and the memory of past trauma may create a mental stigma; the affected person cannot overcome from this memory and a suicidal tendency is aroused within this person. This tendency recurs frequently and ultimately many multiples commit suicide…

Sleep disorder is another allied problem within DID  and during sleep-walking or night terror a person being induced by hidden trait of personality may perform anti social activities that may spoil his/her normal living.

However, it is possible to live as a multiple. Not that society seems to like this idea… the above are merely risks, and risks occur in any walk of life

Anger and blame

We are really really angry at them! at everyone who hurt us… Don’t feel it was us anymore, something clicked… and now we are so so angry…

they stole my life… they destroyed everything I had. They wrecked my education, destroyed my chances of the future I wanted. They damaged my mind to the point that I’m not sure I’ll ever be “normal”. They’ve caused me to waste years of my life, meaning that now I have to try to make up for lost time accademically, fiinancially and occupationally.

Michelle has been telling us this for years, but none of us ever believed her.

and… I hate them for it… I actually hate them, all of them… my parents, Steve, Tristan, John, the bullies, the drug dealer, the random people in the street who’ve yelled stuff at me, the teachers who didn’t stop the bullies, the neighbours who heard me scareaming for help but never came, the police who refused to help me, basically EVERYONE!!!

honestly right now hate the world… I don’t like this, I want to throw something, hit something, break something. I want to cause so much damage… I can’t seem to calm down.
We NEED to damage the world as much as it has damaged us!

they have taken everything… my confidence, my self-esteme, my ability to go outside, my ability to properly feel emotions, my friends, my family… everything… even my degree ended due to the damage they caused. Part of me actually wishes that Tristan was still alive so I could hurt him.

I don’t like this anger. I don’t like the things that right now I want to do to these people. It makes me as bad as them

Anger also riles up Michelle, and finding it hard to keep her in control… she can be quite dangerous when she wants to be and I don’t fancy another night in a jail cell…

self humour

I think this is true of most mental illnesses, but with DID esspecially you have to be able to see the funny side in some of the things that happen or I think you’d actually go totally mad…

For example today I went for a shower and dissociated (this happens often – find showering hard and triggery) anyway, I “came back” and it turns out that someone – probably one of the littles – has tried to cut our hair – badly…

have to laugh, otherwise would cry lol

self humour is important 🙂

Life with DID

This diagnosis carries a lot of controversy among people with “multiplepersonalities”, doctors and other mental health professionals. Thereare many distorted media depictions of life with Dissociative Identity Disorder which has created fear the general population. There are books written on the subject suggesting long tedious recoveries and not muchhope of normalcy. Most of this information stems from a few groups andhow Multiple Personality Disorder was originally presented and notbased on modern-day research on the subject.

What I, and my system, have learned after losing everything precious to us (employment, respect , normal rights) because of a misunderstood label, is you canhave Dissociative Identity Disorder, you can be multiple and stillmanage as a healthy citizen, parent, wife or husband and so on…as longas your system learns tools to communicate and manage the symptoms ofthe disorder. We are learning to properly use inner dialoguing, journaling , and sharing body space and time. We are aiming for a happy, co-consciously existence, sharing memory together.

Another option is integration of alters, but we decided against that.

As we learn to work together more it is no longer odd when a ’switch or transition’ between one alter or another occurs. It is becoming moresubtle, normal to. We do not dramatically or sharply switch because we no longer fight and fear it, nor does it come with announcements, calling attention to switches or ’switch on-command’ like circus show entertainment. Of course now and again the old version of switching does occur, but in time and with more work we hope that we will eventually be able to work together at all times so that no one feelsthe need to force their way out.

Multiplicity is another way oflife and usually becomes a disability only when the person becomeshighly stressed over being a multiple; fearing it, trying to control orstop switches and remaining hidden – furthering secrets and shameassociated with the stigma of Dissociative Identity Disorder. DID is not an illness, it is an effective defence mechanism that only becomes troublesome when the needs or wants of the system are ignored.

DID is not schizophrenia

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I am so so so sick of people thinking that DID is schizophrenia… sick of explaining to people over and over that they are NOT the same and that one DOES NOT develop into the other.

So, I would like to compare the two disorders, Schizophrenia and Dissociative Identity Disorder. To shed light and more understanding about these two mental disorders.


Schizophrenia is probably one of the most stigmatized mental disorders. It seems that in so many cases, dealing with this disorder is just too much for some family members and the person suffering from the disorder loses family support and any help that they could provide. People suffering from this disorder tend not to stay in treatment and tend not to take the medications that have been prescribed for them. This can definitely cause a lot of upheaval within the family. Schizophrenics sometimes hear voices that seem to come from outside themselves. Not all schizophrenics hear these voices, but many do. If medication is administered on a regular basis, the schizophrenic can function normally within society; it is when they fail to maintain a regular schedule of medicating that problems arise. There are several types of schizophrenia as well, such as paranoid schizophrenia and schizoaffective disorder.

Symptoms of Schizophrenia:

I. Positive (or psychotic) symptoms, according to DSM-IV, “reflect an excess or distortion of normal functions” and include: delusions, hallucinations, disorganized speech, and disorganized or catatonic behaviour. These symptoms can be effectively treated with antipsychotic medication.

1. Delusions are defined as “erroneous beliefs that usually involve a misinterpretation of perceptions or experience” and cannot be accounted for by the persons cultural or religious background or level of intelligence. A person experiencing delusions strongly believe in their beliefs and will hold firmly to them regardless of the logical arguments and evidence presented. According to the delusion’s content theme, schizophrenics can experience several different types of delusions, such as:
• Persecutory delusions. They are the most common form of delusions experienced in schizophrenia, and their content revolves around the theme of being spied on, followed, ridiculed, tricked, cheated, conspired against, etc. These persecutory delusions usually involve bizarre ideas and plots.
• Referential delusions. According to these delusions certain events, objects, remarks, gestures, comments, passages from a book, newspapers, song’s lyrics, news, or environmental clues have a personal meaning or are directed to the individual.
• Somatic delusions. These delusions focus on the diseased, changed, or abnormal characteristic of a bodily functioning, bodily sensation, or physical appearance. For example, the patient can believe that their body is infested by parasites or that their organs were removed and replaced with someone else’s organs by a stranger that left no wounds or scars.
• Religious delusions. This type includes any delusion with a religious or spiritual content. Some of these delusions can have grandiose characteristics such as the belief that the person was chosen by God. However, religious delusions vary across cultures and in some cases, can lead to violent behaviours.
• Grandiose delusions. They express the individual’s beliefs that they posses special powers, talents, abilities, are famous people, or have accomplished great achievements for which they never received sufficient recognition.

2. Hallucinations are false or distorted sensory experiences generated by the mind and not by external stimuli which appear to the person as real perceptions. The most common hallucinations experienced by individual with schizophrenia are:
• Auditory hallucinations. This type is by far the most common hallucination described by schizophrenics. They are mostly experienced as familiar or unfamiliar voices or sounds. A typical auditory hallucination in schizophrenia is one where there is, “two or more voices conversing with one another or voices maintaining a running commentary on the person’s thoughts or behaviour.” In many cases, these voices are critical, vulgar, or abusive. Auditory hallucinations tend to get worse when the person is alone. When severe, these hallucinations intrude into the person’s life and activities, and the patient can even respond to them as if in conversation.
• Visual hallucinations. This type of hallucinations are also divided in simple (elementary or non-formed) hallucinations such as dots, colours, flashing light, or geometric patterns, and complex (formed) hallucinations such as objects, animals, or people.
• Olfactory hallucinations (smell).
• Tactile hallucinations (touch).

3. Disorganized speech. One of the characteristic features of schizophrenia is fragmented thinking. Fragmented thinking can be observed in the way the person talks (disorganized speech). This disorganization can vary in patients with schizophrenia. Some individuals can “slip out of track” from one subject to another, speak incoherently, or express illogical thinking. When answering questions, schizophrenics can “be obliquely related or completely unrelated.”
Some of the most common signs of disorganized speech include:
• Loose associations – The person rapidly shifts the conversation subject from one topic to another without connecting them.
• Neologisms – Neologisms, in schizophrenia, refer to those made-up words or phrases that make sense only for the patient.
• Perseveration – The patients repeats the same words or statements over and over.
• Clang -The patient uses different rhyming words in an order that doesn’t make sense.

4. Grossly disorganized or catatonic behaviour. Disorganized behaviour can manifest in various ways such as: childlike silliness, unpredictable agitation (shouting or swearing, muttering aloud in public), difficulties in performing activities of daily living (preparing meals or maintaining a proper hygiene), dressing in a bizarre manner (such as wearing multiples scarfs, multiple coats, or unsuitable cloth for the outside weather – gloves on a hot day), or display inappropriate sexual behaviours (masturbating in public). On the other hand, individuals suffering from schizophrenia also display what is called a catatonic behaviour. This behaviour is characterized by muscular tightness (rigidity) and lack of response to the environment. In severe cases, the catatonic behaviour can reach an extreme degree of complete unawareness (condition known in medical terms as catatonic stupor) when the body maintains a rigid posture and resists the efforts to be moved.

II. Negative symptoms are those symptoms that reflect the loss of normal functioning, and include: flat affection, avolition (withdrawal, loss of motivation, and ambivalence), anhedonia (loss of feeling or inability to express pleasure), and alogia (poverty of speech). Approximately 25 percent of the patients with schizophrenia display what is called the deficit syndrome “defined by severe and persistent negative symptoms”. Unfortunately, negative symptoms are the main reason why individuals with schizophrenia cannot live an independent life, hold jobs, and establish personal relationships.

1. Affective flattening is a common symptom in schizophrenia, and is characterized by unchanging facial expressions where the face appears immobile and unresponsive, poor or no eye contact, reduced body language, and decreased spontaneous movements. A person with affective flattening “may stare vacantly into the space and speak in a flat, toneless voice.” In certain occasions, an individual with affective flattening can smile or warm up, however their range of emotional expressiveness is diminished most of the time.

2. Avolition is a symptom characterized by the absence of initiative or motivation to begin or maintain a goal-directed activity. This symptom involves a lack of energy, increased apathy, and/or lack of interest in daily activities. A person with avolition may sit for hours doing nothing and show little interest in engaging in social or work activities. They can lack the desire to maintain proper personal hygiene or to groom, and have difficulties taking decisions. When these symptoms occur in the clinical picture, it significantly interferes with the individual’s ability to function normally in the work, social, or household settings.

3. Anhedonia represents the inability to feel joy. This symptom manifests when the individual lacks the interest in social or recreational activities and fails in developing close relationships.

4. Alogia or “poverty of speech” is characterized by “brief, laconic, empty replies.” Individuals with alogia appear “to have a diminution of thoughts that is reflected in decreased fluency and productivity of speech”; they tend to be vague and repetitious. However, this symptom should not be confused with the lack of desire to speak.

III. Cognitive symptoms (or impairments) also called cognitive dysfunctions or disorganized symptoms are often present in people with schizophrenia. However, this type of symptom is subtle and is usually detected when the patient undergoes neuropsychological tests. Some of the common cognitive impairments associated with schizophrenia are:
• Difficulties prioritizing tasks and organizing their thoughts.
• Trouble with logical thinking.
• Confused and disordered speech.
• Inability to sustain attention.
• Difficulties making decisions.
• Problems with memory.
• Lack of insight into their condition.

Treating Schizophrenia is also time consuming. Various medications are given and what works well for one person may not work well for another. Once an effective medication has been applied, most schizophrenics are able to live a normal life and function well in society. Medical Science is currently developing new medications for this disorder and soon there will be more and better treatment options.


Just as schizophrenics hear voices that seem to come from outside themselves, most people with Dissociative Identity Disorder hear voices that seem to come from inside themselves. People with DID also do not suffer from hallucinations, delusions, or have problems with speech and understanding. The problems arise when there is a switch from one alternate personality to another, which could cause someone to think the person has a very poor memory, when in fact, they do not; they just were not fully “present” for a short time
Dissociative Identity Disorder results, for the most part, from situations where the person is unable to tolerate a situation, so they “flee” by fragmenting the mind, or splitting off. One alternate personality will remain to endure the event and store that information away from the conscious mind. Memories of these events become compartmentalized. Memories that are similar are often telescoped together and not always stored as separate incidents, but rather, as similar incidents in the same compartment of the mind. The more intense, repetitive and lengthy the situation, the more fragmented the personality becomes.

Symptoms of DID:

1. Amnesia. A very common manifestation of the disorder is amnesia or loss of time usually observed by those around the person. Patients with DID experience frequent memory gaps in personal history (as extreme as an overall loss of biographical memory for extended periods of time during childhood, adolescence, or adulthood years), past events (they can forget what had happened during a certain period of time such as 3 years in a row) or recent events (they find items in their house that they do not remember purchasing, written notes with a different handwriting than their own, or evidence of activities they don’t remember engaging in). Some expert’s hypothesis that amnesia might be possible due to the fact that passive identities tend to have more constricted memories, while the more hostile, controlling, or protective identities have more complete memories.

2. Depersonalization is a dissociation symptom characterized by an alteration in the perception or experience of self, in which the patient either feels that their body is unreal, changing or dissolving, or detached from it, similar with an outside observer of their own mental processes or body while having no control over the situation.

3. Derealisation is also a dissociation symptom in which the external world is perceive as strange or unreal.

4. Identity disturbances are one of the most distinct symptoms of dissociative identity disorder. Individuals with DID usually have a main personality and several alters that take charge in different situations. The alternate identities “are intrapsychic entities that have a sense of self, have an emotional repertoire, and can process information”. Some of the alters handle and act out emotions the patient cannot deal with such as rage or terror, others (called internal self helpers) watch what is going on and give advice, or act as friends. Some alters can know, observe, and interact with one another in an extremely elaborated inner world, while others may not be aware of the existence of some alters. When they interact with one another, the patient can report hearing inner conversations which are usually diagnosed as auditory hallucinations. However, DID auditory hallucinations differ from schizophrenia auditory hallucinations due to their distinct qualities. In DID, the voices are perceived to be heard internally in the brain, while in schizophrenia the voices are perceived to come from outside the brain.

So, who are we?

Well I am Hazel, I have been writting most of our posts so far. I am the core personality, in other words I am the original. I’m 22 and I am a student studying physiology.

I’m Michelle, I’m 17. I am the strength in our system, I hold them all together. I keep people away, keep the body safe and will never let anyone hurt any of us again.

My name is Sarah, and I am 16. The others in my system don’t like me much, they regard me as weak and dirty. I think I remind them of the past… They dislike me as I do not treat the body well… I self-harm and restrict/purge and they think this shows my weakness even more… But I only do it as those are the rules that the bad man made, and breaking them is dangerous.
Anyway, bad stuff aside, I really like music, painting, reading and going on hikes. I esspecially like mountains and lakes, luckily we live in Scotland so those arre both fairly common 🙂

hi. I am Rachel, I am 15 years old. I always feel a little isolated from the rest of the system, a bit useless and unimportant. But I am told this is not true.
I lie to write, mainly poetry which the host then lets me put on her DeviantART page which I like 😀

Hi… I b Jenny. I 6

BOO! hehe 😛
me b Jess. me b hellper me tri 2 b guds an hellp ceep bodi safs 😀 . me liks kitties an tofee

mi b faith mi b 4.

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